Thursday, December 28, 2023

Two Women Walk Into A Bar

Two Women Walk Into A Bar Is a very short book by Cheryl Strayed that memorializes her relationship with her mother in law. It was offered free to Prime members in Kindle, and I read it in less than an hour. Strayed’s is definitely the style of writing I aspire to, and this short memoir reminded me of the QuigleyWorld blog posts I wrote about my parents’ deaths. 

The kids gave Stu and I a StoryWorth subscription for Christmas this year. I’m excited, and a little intimidated, to get started. Maybe writing will sustain me after I retire next year. God I hope so!

Sunday, December 17, 2023

Malibu Rising

 

What’s the hype about Taylor Jenkins Reid? Maybe I chose the wrong book to read first. Malibu Rising was just okay; it was a quick read, but I wasn’t wowed by the writing style, characters or plot. Meredith suggested Daisy Jones & The Six and The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo. Maybe I’ll try one of those next summer. 



Saturday, November 25, 2023

Fairy Tale


Too long! If there is another world you get to by climbing down a spiral staircase in a backyard shed, I hope it’s more interesting than the one King has created. 

Friday, August 4, 2023

Foster

When asked about his favorite writers at a talk I attended recently, Andre Dubus III, who wrote The House of Sand and Fog (which I loved) and (the more recent) Kindness, mentioned Irish author Claire Keegan, known for her emotionally penetrating short stories and novellas. Such high praise from Dubus led me to download Foster since Small Things Like These was unavailable. 

Sparse writing that is nonetheless saturated with a profound depth of sentiment and insight, is the hallmark of Keegan’s writing style. The portrayal of a struggling family forced to surrender one of their children to live with relatives is powerful and moving subject matter. I empathized with the child who describes her circumstance this way, “I am in a spot where I can neither be what I always am nor turn into what I could be.”

 

Monday, July 31, 2023

The Only Woman in the Room

The end of The Only Woman in the Room by Marie Benedict is the best part. After reading the Author’s Note, I was inspired to watch this YouTube video that captures the spirit of Hedy Lamarr better than the book did for me. Reading this book was even more slow-going than usual for me because I felt that the voice was all wrong. Benedict is a lawyer, and I couldn’t help thinking that the tone was too “lawyerly” for the novelization of Hedy Lamar’s story. Benedict’s writing style seems more suited to a nonfiction slant similar to the approach taken by author Nancy Rubin Stuart when writing about the women in Benjamin Franklin’s life.

It’s difficult for me to be too critical though because I met the Marie Benedict at a speed-signing at Titcomb’s this summer, and she is gracious and lovely! Two friends of mine, Deb J and Brenda, loved this book, so clearly Benedict’s style is appealing in ways that other people appreciate. 

I’ll be interested to compare the writing with that of The First Ladies, co-written by Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray (who was also present at the signing and coauthored The Personal Librarian with Benedict). I bought that book but have lent it out to Brenda and Lisa while I slog my way through another solo-Benedict selection about Winston Churchill’s wife, Clementine. 

Sunday, July 16, 2023

Demon Copperhead

Here’s the thing about Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver. I was immediately drawn into the story and became invested in the imperfect lives of the downtrodden characters. Halfway through, for some reason, I started to lose interest in the escapades of the  David Copperfield-esque main character. Now that I’ve finished reading the book, I miss hanging out with Demon, Maggot, Angus, Fast Forward, and all their other larger-than-life associates.

The book shines a light on some thorny societal issues including poverty, foster care and children’s services, and substance abuse. This can sometimes feel preachy and heavy-handed, but by far what kept me reading was the characterization, especially the distinctive voice of the wise-beyond-his-years protagonist, Demon.

Saturday, May 20, 2023

The Road

The Road by Cormac McCarthy is a dark, disturbing and compelling vision of a dystopian future. It follows the journey of a father and young son as they navigate a post-apocalyptic America covered in ash. An unspecified cataclysmic event has rendered the country a cold and overcast hell-scape.

Dangers, both environmental and human, lurk at every turn as the pair battles hunger, hopelessness, and despair. Wheeling a shopping cart containing their meager possessions and dwindling stores of food, they use a tattered map to make their way south in search of warmth on a ravaged, rainy planet. 

This terrifying, bleak reality serves as a menacing backdrop to the tender moments between father and son who explore their feelings of compassion, determination, resignation, and grief.

Sunday, May 7, 2023

Inspire

I just finished reading Inspire: The Principles That Transform Student Behavior and Learning by Michael Linsin. Why am I reading a book about classroom management when I’m so close to retirement I can taste it, you ask? To drive away the work stress dreams I’ve been having, of course!

Somehow I ended up on Linsin’s Smart Classroom Management mailing list, and I’m glad I did. Each week I receive an email with a short newsletter on a topic relevant to managing student behavior. This week’s selection was:

How To Deal With Your Students' Sagging Pants 

Linsin’s theories validate all my frustrations about the lack of support for student disrespect at my school. I even shared an article with my principal, to no avail. Nonetheless, the straightforward message and easy to implement strategies prescribed by SCM help me maintain my sanity in the “world gone mad” atmosphere at BUES!

The SCM website includes an extensive library of past articles categorized for easy access:


This book is a nice review and summary of all the common sense concepts contained in the SCM philosophy.

Wednesday, April 19, 2023

The Midnight Library

Great premise, disappointing delivery sums up my opinion of The Midnight Library by Matt Haig. It should, however, get credit for holding my attention to completion whereas the following four books were abandoned by me during the winter of my discontent 22/23: Never Have I Ever by Joshilyn Jackson, A Visit from the Goon Squad by Jennifer Egan, The Passenger by Cormac McCarthy, and Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus.

I even started reading this book while still working and finished it during April vacation. I'm pretty pleased with myself for soldiering on even though midway through, I had lost interest in the whiny main character and suicide theme. The beginning and set-up of the plot (that she was sent to the midnight library to choose other life paths after trying to kill herself) was promising, but by the middle it took a turn (she was able to keep choosing and rejecting multitudes of lives) that I found cloying and simplistic. Then the heavy-handed conclusion (I won't give it away) kind of sealed the book's fate in my mind as ho-hum.


Tuesday, April 4, 2023

The Wild Robot

 


Holy MCAS practice, Batman! For the first time ever, one of the passages was actually fun to read and developmentally appropriate for my students. The excerpt from The Wild Robot by Peter Brown was so entertaining, I actually downloaded the whole book from CLAMS to see how things turn out for ROZZUM. I'm not sure I care that much about the robot to read the two sequels however ; ) The Wild Robot Escapes and The Wild Robot Protects.

Saturday, February 25, 2023

Cloud Cuckoo Land

Cloud Cuckoo Land by Anthony Doerr is a book about the importance of writing: writing stories, information, feelings, instructions, anything that strengthens rather than divides the bonds of humanity, especially during these divisive and conflicted times. Spanning several continents and time periods, the frenetic plot is nicely tied together in the end. Somewhere in this sprawling novel lurks a cautionary tale about AI and the havoc humans are wreaking on our planet. I'll be pondering the lessons embedded in Cuckoo Land once the covid-induced dumpster fire in my head subsides. This may be my new all-time-favorite book (beating out John Irving's A Prayer for Owen Meany), and I may have to check out some of the author's other works, such as All the Light We Cannot See.


Wednesday, February 22, 2023

Good Morning, Monster

 

I gobbled this one up! So relatable, even though it’s been years since I was in therapy. I’ve been struggling a bit lately and could probably use a psycho-tune-up. Fighting the negative tapes set in my head is a full time job and unfortunately I have yet to retire from my miserable real job.

Also, my therapist was in her 70s in the 90s—so do the math—and the thought of trying to find a new one makes me depressed. 

Good Morning, Monster: A Therapist Shares Five Heroic Stories of Emotional Recovery by Catherine Gildiner might just get me through my savage case of S.A.D. this winter. Reading Gildiner’s accounts of her interactions with these five very diverse cases, I recognized many familiar themes from my own therapy experience.

"What Laura, Peter, Danny, Alana, and Madeline can teach us is that we can all be heroes. Their struggles exemplify Thomas Hardy’s words in his poem “In Tenebris II”: “If way to the Better there be, it exacts a full look at the Worst.” They remind us that it is possible, although not always easy, to overcome our fears, to break out of our self-imposed boundaries where we mistake confinement for security. Finally, these heroes inspire us by showing that all self-examination is brave."

 Head shrinking requires a courage that only the strongest among us even attempt.

Tuesday, February 21, 2023

The Last White Man

 

Three books in three days?! Who even am I? 

Well, I'm grieving the end of 2022 for some reason. Winter has been mild but rough for me emotionally. Anxiety, discontent, work stress, changing routines. . . damn Judy Woodruff' leaving the PBS news broadcast, and soon Jim Broude will no longer host Greater Boston. My weeknights from 6-7:30 pm (bedtime) will be forever changed!

I've learned a lot from Braude, even though he makes me cringe at times. I was intrigued when he interviewed Mohsin Hamid, the author of The Last White Man, so I picked up a copy of the book when I saw it at Target. It's been sitting in my to-be-read pile for months. I'm glad I finally made time for it. 

Here is Maureen Corrigan's description of the book in an npr book review from August 2022. "A deft, if narrow, Twilight Zone-type fantasy about identity, The Last White Man only seriously strains credulity at its very end. No doubt, it says something about our own anxious times that the happy ending here seems too far-fetched." 

This short book has an unusual writing style, bordering on long, run-on sentences. The dystopian theme was inspired by Kafka's Metamorphosis. With references to society's "addictive quest for celebrity" and recognition of "the local paper having shut down long ago," Hamid's future world reflects some troubling aspects of our current world of miscommunication and fake news. His rambling prose brings a sense of urgency to his message.
"In a world that did not care and was getting worse all the time, worse and worse and more and more dangerous, a danger you could see all around you, all you had to do was to look at the crime and the potholes in the streets and the weird people who now came when you called for anything, for a plumber, an electrician, for help with your garden, for help with anything at all."